5 savjeta o dojenju za postojeće i buduće očeve postali viralni hit

Ovim popisom odlučio je pomoći već postojećim očevima, ali i onima koji će to uskoro postati. 

1. Za noćno hranjenje. Kad se majka vašega djeteta probudi usred noći ustanite i pitate ju da li joj je potrebna pomoć ili možda čaša vode. Istina je da većinu vremena njezin odgovor bude ne, ali sama činjenica da ste ponudili svoju pomoć značit će joj.

2. Pitaj majku može li ispumpati mlijeko, a zatim odaberi jedan termin hranjenja koji ćeš uvijek ti odrađivati. Majka djeteta će preuzeti gotovo sve i "izgorjet" će ako joj ti to dopustiš. Ponekad ćeš ju morati prisiljavati da se odmara i ne razmišlja o djetetu. Ovo je jednostavan način da se to postigne bez prepiranja.

 

 

 

 

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Daddy Chronicles Breastfeeding Last Month was Breastfeeding Awareness Month. So I figured id drop some knowledge on my fellow Dads and soon to be Dads. Here's what it looks like for the first few weeks or months after your child is born. Yup if mom breastfeeds they pretty much are tucked like this and at times you'll wonder "what is there for me to do?" Here's my top 5 tips for any Dad after your child is born. 1. For night feedings. When mom wakes up in the middle of the night. You get up and ask if she needs any help or water. The truth is most of the time she will say no but just the fact that you offered will go far. 2. Ask mom if she can pump and then pick 1 feeding that you will always do. Mom will take on almost everything and will burn herself out if you let her. At times you may have to force her to rest without worrying about the baby. This is an easy way to do that without a fight. 3. Don't put a time limit on how long mom breastfeed the baby. It's not just about feeding your child it's about them bonding as well. I know everyone has a diffrent length of time they will breastfeed and as a Dad it's hard to fully understand. Do not I repeat DO NOT try and rush this process it's not our place and it's not safe. You will open yourself up to a fight you can't win. 4. Be patient. I know as a Dad the first few weeks we are equally excited and yet not as important yet. Your time will come faster than you know. Babies grow fast and the stronger bigger they get the more Daddy Time will be coming your way. 5. Paternity leave! If you have it TAKE IT. The early stages of a childs life are not just for moms to enjoy. I know as men making the money especially after having a baby but trust me. You can always make money but there are no instant replays in life. It doesn't make you more of a man to not take the leave. It's equally as important that you as a Dad get to be a part of the early development of your child. Someone needs this info Tag them. #theblackmancan #daddydaughter #daddiesgirls #thechroniclesofdaddy #lifestyle #love #daddygang #nitotogirls #twoundertwo #daddysgirls #afrofitness #blackgirlmagic #blackdads #blackfamily #blackfathers #tbt

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3. Ne postavljaj vremensko ograničenje na to koliko dugo majka doji dijete. Ne radi se samo o hranjenju djeteta, već i o njihovom međusobnom povezivanju. Svi imaju različitu duljinu vremena kojeg doje,a očevima je to ponekad teško razumjeti u potpunosti. Zato, ponavljam, nemoj pokušavati ubrzati taj proces jer nije tvoje mjesto da to radiš i otvorit ćeš se prepirci iz koje ne možeš izaći kao pobjednik.

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4. Budi strpljiv. I sam sam otac te znam da su očevi u prvim tjednima jako uzbuđeni. Tvoje vrijeme će doći brže nego što misliš. Bebe brzo rastu i što su veće i snažnije, to će više biti vremena za druženje s tatom.

5. Roditeljski dopust. Ako ga imaš, iskoristi ga. U ranim fazama dječjeg života nisu bitne isključivo majke. Uvijek ćeš moći zaraditi novac, ali neke stvari u životu nećeš moći ponoviti. Nećeš biti veći muškarac ako ne iskoristiš roditeljski dopust. Jednako je važno da i tate budu dio djetetova života od samog početka.

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